Thursday, October 1, 2009


"When deep injurey is done to us,
we never recover until we forgive..
Forgiveness does not change the past..
But it does enlarge the future.."
-Mary Karen Read


  1. Hatred implanted in our heart will not disappear out of sudden. Forgiveness really need a lot of will to do that, especially our loved one took everything away from us. That's the hardest and painful step for us to forgive. Love is the most important amongst all in life. No love, no forgiveness. No love, there will be a lot of disasters in this world.

  2. I totally agree with u.. No Love, No Nothing.. Love is everything.. EVERYTHING..

  3. For some reason I'm not able to see or hear the video. Maybe I'll check by later to see if I can.

    I agree with Canon In D 1909 and how if our loves ones hurt us or abandon us it is very hard to forgive this. My family did this to me. My "whole family" and I will never understand why. I've spent the last 11 years all on my own without a family of "love support system"...even though they know I've struggled so much to survive it doesn't matter to them. Most of it has to do with their radical religious ways and me not wanting to be that way and I feel differently on a spiritual level than they do. They will not accept me the way I am. And also I don't feel they've ever accepted me for who I really am...creative artistic expression and just being different than them. "Acceptance" of one another of who we really our in our hearts, from the ones that are supposed to love us(our family) is very important. Don't you think so? It still hurts my heart but used to be a lot more I guess I'm making progress.

    Obviously I'm still working on this..

    Thank you Yang Jun for giving me some food for thought.


  4. Rhihanno.. Thank you so much for your comment.. I'm sorry to hear about that.. But on the other hand I'm happy for you that you got the strength to make progress.. All the best.. With hope to have a better tomorrow, even better than today for everybody ;).. Don't ever forget that there always are people with much worse problems.. Always be thankful..

  5. Yang Jun,

    I would like for you to drop by my blog when you get a chance. I would like you to see for yourself how the video in this post "forgiveness"(which I put in my most recent post in my blog) has given some of my dear blog friends food for thought...and is helping me more than you'll ever know...

    Thank you so so much...